Hetero Male Egos: "My wife/girlfriend left me for another woman." , " I'll beat that fag's ass."

So recently, a friend of mine got into an altercation. The friend is a gay male and the guy that approached him was not. I wont go into the details of the actual situation, as they have no relevance to the subject. During the altercation, however, my friend, and his enemy were seperated and left to simmer down. The enemy (lets just call him T)... said all kind of things about how easily he could break my friend (who we will call S) in two. While spouting fag this, and bitch that I couldnt help but wonder what makes straight men think that they have a physical advantage over gays.

Is the biological structure any different?
Are you magically given the power to lift 500 lbs more than any gay man because you're straight?

Where are they getting this nonsense? I get it... Most men who share the same attitude as T would be egotistical. These kinds of men would have friends that would make him to be a complete joke if he were to get knocked out by a tranny... But why would any logical person believe that because a man chooses to be with other men, or wear a womans clothing, and makeup that he is weaker to those who choose to be with only women?

I can understand the possible feeling of inadequacy for a male whos wife left him or cheated on him because she realized that she is attracted to women. But i've seen a man become completely bitter over this. A man who never had a real problem with homosexuality before, but now doesnt come too short of a character from the Teena Brandon scenario. I definitely understand the pain for seperation, but why take it out on everyone.

Why even feel inadequate? Maybe your wife/girlfriend never was attracted to men from the beginning and just didnt know what to do about it and you just came in at the wrong time.

What would your boyfriend do? What would your husband say?