I am getting married in three months and will be 20 years old on my wedding day. My parents raised me to believe that marriages would only work if you waited until at least 25 to be married...and in their case, that probably was the decision that was best. What frustrates me the most is that it is assumed that their way is the ONLY way. Read More »
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Marrying an Airman
So, I guess it's my turn to write a note about the whole business, since my better half wrote one. :) Read More »

Fuck Waldo
As a little girl, the "Find Waldo" series was one of my favorites. The idea of a man that could be lost so many times - in so many places - and that he needed me to find him both fascinated and intrigued me. No visit to the doctor's office or the dentist's office was complete until I found him on every page of every book. Read More »
Am I too young for marriage?
How do you really know when it is the right time for you to get married? Should you be a certain age? Should you be with someone for a certain amout of time? Should your parents decide? Read More »
The Acceptance of Domestic Violence
Why is it that domestic violence is more accepted than other forms of assault and battery? I live in Connecticut, and, if I am not mistaken, the repercussions here for domestic violence are much less than those imposed for assault and battery. Read More »

"I Do" Marriage 101
Family, Friends, HELP!!!
The nearly unthinkable has happened. One of the dozens of scholarship contests I've entered has a ray of light. Go to the below link, read it, vote it, and help me move on up to the number one spot!! And a chance at this scholarship. Vote EVERY DAY if you can. Thank you a million, in advance
MAI ESSAY LINK: Read More »
What is the purpose of marriage?
At the end of the day, what’s the point? Is it strictly a reproduction method? Is it a way of maintaining social order? Are we all really two halves of the same whole looking to become complete? Read More »

Civil Unions?
In light of California's Proposition 8 and the unfolding national protests, it seems to me that many people don't have a problem with gay and lesbian relationships, but want to hold "marriage" as something sacred (even if the divorce rate is over 50%). Read More »


