Lately I've been discusing my future plans alot with my parents. My dad is usually incredibly supportive of me, but when it comes to my future, finances come first. He's been insinuating that I should go into a major that is less expensive. It's so aggrivating that the only thing standing in the way of my dreams is money. I've been wanting to do this for so long that I can't imagine having to just give it up. I can't become one of those people who take a stable job out of convienance. I can't be an office worker, or a teacher, without being miserable. I want to go into film, so I should go into film.
Remember when we were young and you truly believed you could accomplish anything? You wanted to be an astronuat, or the president, or an actress, and you were so certain that you would be. Then you grew up, and reality sunk in. Then the dreams you once had get placed on the back burner, and are forgotten about. Why do we allow that to happen? We can't just work had to accomplish our dreams? I know it would be hard, but it would be worth it. We should be able to do what we want to do. Our insecurities, or lack of confidence shouldn't get in the way of our hopes.
I can't give up. I just need to work hard for a dream I've had for as long as I can remember. I won't let little setbacks ruin my plans. I'm going to do what I want, and I will do my best not to regret anything
The future freaks me out
By kwazzica - Posted on November 6th, 2009
If its something that you want to do that badly than your only choice is to work hard and show your parents that you are willing to make the necesary sacrifices. But also be realistic at the same time. You may have to work at another job in order to make your dream succeed, and it may not. Film is extremely competitive and very few schools have programs in them and a lot of them are relatively new.
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http://www.progressiveu.org/blog/tricia0711
In this world, anything is possible. It's a cliche, but believe it. Finances... they burden everyone. Those lucky enough to not be hindered by money (or lack thereof) usually are held back by something else. It really sounds like your parents care and are just looking at all options. Money, while not being the only thing in this world, tends to be a huge factor in every decision we make.
Where would we be if we made decisions based on what held us back? If film is calling you, answer. It's what you're meant to do, Jessica. Money isn't everything. Again, another cliche... but it's still true. Head for what you want to do in life and let NOTHING stop you. There is a path to whatever you want to do in this life, you just need to find it. It may take sacrifice and work, but it CAN be done. In your case, I have a feeling it WILL be done. I don't think you'll let anything stop you.
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Can we block it out or something to make up for the lack of common sense showed there? For their sake.
There is no reason you shouldn't go into film if it's something you enjoy. However, I would almost encourage you to go into film only after you've taken some business courses first. This is helpful because you will first understand the business side of all industries, including film, and will help you get into the industry once you're done with studying film.
Also, interestingly enough, clients who hire people for skills like computers, film, musical performance, or other talent-based skills would rather see your experience than your degree. If you're a good singer, you're going to be a good singer whether or not you've gotten a degree at Juilliard. Same with film. If you can build a fantastic portfolio of examples of your work, intern with someone who works in the industry and learn the ins and outs of it, you could feasibly get a great job over Joe Schmoe who graduated with a second masters in film and some related field. It's entirely possible.
Just something to think about.