I recently went through some....drama, yeah...that's a good name for it, where I realized who my true friends were. One person who I cut ties with wrote me a letter after everything happened saying that I better watch out because the college campus I was going to was her "territory". to be quite honest, even in all her insanity, she can have it. I went to another campus, but decided this one was closer and after a few weeks of going, I'd rather pay the dollar a day toll to go back to my previous campus, But I digress.
What I think about from time to time is how in the hell can someone be so full of themselves to think that one campus of thousands of students is her territory. This girl is a single child and her family struggled to send her to private school. Her friends are white collar, meanwhile, no offense to anyone, drives a discontinued car and doesn't live in the best of neighborhoods. The only one that works in the house of four people is her mother and yet this girl thinks she can afford shopping trips to Nordstrom and Steve Madden shoes.
It occurred to me while we were still friends that this may because she is an only child, but I also told her she should at least get a minimum wage job to begin paying for her own things to help her mother out. She is 20 years old, I would only assume it is time. She said she needs to focus on school.
I go to school for just as many classes as she does, yet I have been working since I was 16 knowing I would like to have money to pay for my own things. I'm 19 and I pay for my own gas and I am starting to help my mother out with car insurance.
Why do parents and friends of people like this feed into them? This could very well be the reason why our friendship ended. I didn't hold back my opinions. And to some people the truth hurts.
Why can't some people just get a tiny grip on reality?
People who have been given things there whole life seem to not have incentive to work. They just figure well i will get what i want with someone else paying for it why work for something when you can have it handed to u. Your old friend probably expects things handed to her and since she is so used to it she probably doesn't see a point in working hard for something.
well good thing your not friends with her, she sounds like a pain in the ass. you may have heard this before but tha more they talk the more they can't back ther shizz up (am i allowed to swear on this thing)
im honestly kind of disappointed you moved to a different campus out of fear.
anyway. if she cant take the truth than she'll jus learn some other way, hopefully, after/if everyone abandons her for lack of character, she'll realize she needs change.
hopefully she'll b mature enough to apologize for her immaturity.
anddddd--->Why do parents and friends of people like this feed into them? lol. you mean strong figures? im kind of like that person, i think ppl feed into me, except unlike her, apparently? i really value morals, principles etc.. strong figures have an authoritative feel to them, aura i guess u culd say, and less dominant characters don't want tha controversy that comes with argueing that figure. so they bend.
human nature is interesting. lol.
---Stay Gold---
oh, i didn't move to another campus. i had gone to a further campus but decided her "territory was closer". what i meant is she can have it, not out of fear,but just because its absolutely horrible.