Go for it, or get over it!

Cheating is caused by a various amount of reasons, while mostly it is a combination of desire driven by an immature ego.
Some amongst have just left the realm of animals, therefore they still need to learn a lot, especially when they are driven by hormones they do not control.

On the other hand you have the victims, the hurt ones.

Most victims lack a certain amount of necessary self-esteem which could easily prevent them from falling inside that whole, an emotional negative whole one can refer to as self-pity.

Individuals regardless if they are male or female are and linger around amongst with a constant need of attention and affirmation to please their ever demanding, needing mind state.

This needing mind state they carry around, actually represents the very root and source of all the misery they attract inside their (pitiful) lives.

Those needs they project upon everyone open or receptive to it become a real drain since those needs only become stronger and more emotionally unstable on the long run.

People who get cheated upon, in many cases can be considered The Energy Vampires amongst us all. They gradually and sometimes unwarily suck out all the energy out of those who reach out in empathy to fill in their needs.

Those vampires are on a constant quest to seek and find whatever stimuli they assume to be fulfilling their so called I’m liked and loved mind state.

This illusion in thinking they need to find love outside themselves from their surroundings, makes many to eventually tumble into the pit of self-pity.

When you get cheated upon, simply means you are not meant to be together for all the reasons you might think off.

If you fall down the pit into self-pity and emotional chaos, you are now officially an addict or have become addicted to certain unknown stimulus which has created this manifestation inside your life.

So, the main problem is situated in the fact you don’t love yourself, this is the root and main reason why hurt kicks in when the ~I have been cheated~ balloon pops in your face.

On the other hand, you’re out of hand focused addiction towards the one you think and believe to love, now has become a dagger which has stabbed you right in the brain and heart!

Depending on how grand this illusion of love one carried when things were fun and happy, will determine how long it will take before hurt will fade or leave the mind again.

This is the sick part, because, as long one stays in the pit of self-pity, one will not regain consciousness, while remain to dwell in pain for days, months, even years before any change into a more positive mindset will occur.

Why is that?

The most apparent reason is not dealing with the addiction in the first place, this is caused by denial.

A denial to accept you don’t need him or her around to be a happy and loving person.

For guys addictions are fairly easy to decipher.

The number one reason for males is SEX!

Sex is by far the number one reason why people cheat upon one another in the first place.

The path of a male is simple, desire pushes and takes males to explore their (hornyness) curiosity.

If I can have this pussy, maybe I can have that pussy too!

They will go on in doing so, one step (pussy) further each time, until they reach a point of painful maturity in understanding the difference between love and sex.

This maturity takes place when they hit their face against a wall at full speed! Meaning, when they get dumped or cheated upon by someone they have become addicted to.

Females who are in control of their sexuality, rule this planet while represent the core reason most women upon this globe are still today treated like an object which can be used.

In order to solve this sexual control issue, some amongst get circumcised by those who regard them as being a threat.

Anyhow, a male who gets dumped or cheated upon can become a mature person or a female biggest nightmare.

Our worldly poor ways in programming and educating children and youngsters is directly responsible for this.

Parents unwarily allow a process of brainwashing to be processed upon their offspring, why?

Because they don’t know any better, themselves having been subjected to the very same pattern of mind indoctrination, this for multiple generations making it to have become a social norm and accepted trend which is never questioned.

To question this indoctrination is still today literally a big time taboo!

Anyway,

A male who doesn’t learn or gain acceptance of female sexual equality, eventually becomes detached from the emotional self within, this results in various kinds of manifestations which trouble the minds of many.

This detachment can be seen as an inner emotional rejection of the female identity within the male being and his state of mind.

Indoctrination is causing this division to take place, because it has for ages been its purpose in doing so.

Create division in order to control both!

To keep a secret and away the truth males and females are in fact male/female within, regardless of what may seem from the outside!

Those males, who detach from this female emotional aspect, instead of reaching maturity, remain on a path driven by desire which eventually becomes their biggest enemy, while most likely in many situations leave behind a trail of hurt and guilt.

Most males don’t even reach that far in maturity, while don’t even come close to come to an understanding what’s been explained here, they rather create and more worse support this ridicule indoctrination, while keep alive that fake illusion of being dominant in regard to females.

Males are often pitiful a display to witness when they don’t get the pussy they desire.

Good thing, their poor approaches make them to be easily spotted amongst within the female realms.

Most, who fail, get eaten inside by a lack of affection which pushes them to go see a hooker instead. This is mostly one of the ways they deal with self-pity.

In hurt they reject and neglect the essence of love, while turn up the desire volume in none emotional way, this in which they detach not only from themselves, but more important their very own essence by abusing it.

Wherever there is a bakery to be found, prostitutes are never far a reality around!

They are the oldest professions in the world…

These days prostitutes are invisible beings who wander around without a tag.

Meaning, not all prostitutes get paid, but are socially supported so they don’t have to lose their face in public.

The best way to recognize one is to pay attention!

This is all the confusion in our world of suffering. People don’t pay attention and therefore they get cheated upon.

Any person who asks you, what your job is in the second spoken line is someone to be cautious with, lol.

What you say next could or can determine a lot, whether yes or no, this person is going to open up its zipper or legs to welcome you, they might not have a tag saying such, but they are untagged prostitutes.

Most individuals around carry a concept about love they make up for themselves within a self created illusion of their mind.

These days money equals love!

A Prince on a white horse being the most popular one, still around and kicking today in the top ten illusions which are socially fed and educated to our offspring.

This prince is a sad gift which has been programmed inside the brain throughout familial education and depending of what nest one fell into, the one above plays his part into molding ones concept of love into a fairytale which can be a bitter pill to swallow, whenever conscious awareness kicks in one will fall down the pit when the balloon pops.

People don’t to grasp or understand love, not even an unknown entity for one to meet at the end of the ride amongst, is worth more to cherish than love itself.

Anyhow, most ignore, there are as many female prostitutes as there are male ones too.

But our educational realities like we know and experienced them in our daily lives don’t portray truths as such.

Realities and truths are bending in order to create and control ones sexual freedom.

The funny thing, we all know who these male and female prostitutes are! Lol, they are our friends who we hate and like.

Deep down in hearts, they are hated by the many, because they represent a constant threat to those who keep up this illusion of being faithful.

They are, regardless whether talking about the female or male prostitutes, putting pressure upon and inside relationships of the faithful.

Funny enough they attract amazing amounts of various jealousies upon themselves because of their lifestyle.

Well, the truth is, they don’t live inside an illusion!

The fabricated tag of unfaithful female/male, so called whore is an illusion itself, like beyond ridiculous.

If one doesn’t get the crap out of his system, one will not get in touch with his own sexuality, period!

While never will one find true love upon its path having to live that illusion of another in happiness or pain, till death do us part?

To understand you only have to love yourself in order to feel it in and outside your heart will set you free, because of abundance it evokes within your life.

Someone who cheats! No one can tell when it will end, only he or she in realization, this is why many hate and fear the suffering it can bring forward, while letting go is the best way proceed.

The more love one evokes for him/herself, the less suffering will be encountered upon ones path.

Seek and enjoy, letting go will keep one from falling or remaining in the pit of self-pity.

To truly love, no one should be dictated who to love…

Love is freedom of heart and peace of mind…

Go for it, or get over it!