This is another paper that I wrote for my sociology class, about how I have been socialized, who had a hand in the process of my socialization, and why I was socialized.
One of the definitions dictionary.com provides for the word “socialization” is “a continuing process whereby an individual acquires a personal identity and learns the norms, values, behavior, and social skills appropriate to his or her social position.” In other words, being taught what the acceptable to behave in society is. This process is overseen by family, school, other organizations, and any one else an individual interacts with.
Since most of my early years were spent with my immediate family, they were in charge of my socialization. Even when I did socialize outside the house, where I was and who I was with was decided by my parents.
When I began public elementary school, my parents had less control over what people I was with and what I was learning. Then, my socialization was not only in the hands of my classmates, teachers, and administrators, but myself as well. I began observing other people, and deciding what norms was worth following or not. Sometimes I get into arguments with my dad because my views are not always what he wishes they would be. I can remember being younger, and getting into a disagreement. “That’s not how I taught you to act!” he would tell me. I couldn’t help but think, “You’re not my only influence.”
Another thing that affected my socialization was when my family moved from Renton, Washington, to Morgantown, West Virginia. Norms and priorities were different in the two places, and I learned not to be shocked my confederate flags or a lack of recycling. I suppose this would be an example of “resocialization.”
Why was I socialized? Well, that answer is easy: because locking me in a box for the rest of my life has never been a practical option. It is impossible not to be around others and not be affected. And of course, it would be embarrassing to everyone to see how I act if I were not restricted by cultural norms.
