Cheating, what is it?

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Cheating. How do you feel about it? Once a cheater always a cheater? Is just hanging out cheating? In high school is it really not cheating because its HIGH SCHOOL and those relationships don’t count? How do you feel Blogging world? I would like to know. Because I have been a victim of this ‘cheating world’ and I have been accused of being a ‘slut bitch who messes around behind peoples back’. My boyfriend of 3 months in the fall of my jr. year of high school, felt that it would be fun to sleep with his ex-girl friend over 13 times while we were together. Now I ask you, why would he even bother dating me if he loved being with his old girl so much? I ask him this and what was his reply? “I never knew how much I missed her till I wasn’t with her”. We were together for THREE MONTHS and he couldn’t have found that out a little sooner?! Well in his defense, he is a boy, and he doesn’t think with his brain… if you know what I mean . The kicker is, when I dumped him, he didn’t go back to his old girlfriend, he found someone else…. And that brings up another question… did he lie to me? Or is he just a cheater, and loves the chase and the feeling of going behind some ones back. Next, I go on to how I was accused of cheating. I have guys that are friends. One of my really close male friends, lets call him Matt, like to go to new movies and put them to the “worth the money “ test, and this is a list of qualities we judge movies on. We have been doing this for years! A few months ago Matt got a new girl friend and they spent every moment together. She is a nice girl, I kind of knew her from before and I really didn’t have a problem with her. Mike Myers just happens to be Matt’s favorite actor, so when Mr. Myers new movie came out “the love guru” came out we had to put it to WTM test. So we went (wasn’t that good) and then went to hooters after to get wings. THE NEXT DAY Matt calls me and tells me his girlfriend broke up with him because of our actions the night before because he ‘cheated on her’. Now really? Is that cheating? We have been seeing movies together for YEARS. I just don’t understand. But! What I had come to find out later, Matt had told her that he was going to the movies with ‘some friends’ and didn’t tell her that it was just me. And now I could see how she would be mad, but not worth break up with a guy that you had been going out for 6 months! Oh well, I would like to know what you think on the whole “cheating” thing, and if anything like this has ever happened to you before. Because I know it happens more then any one would like to believe. AHHHHH whoa this was long, longer then I had hoped, and I hope some one reads this who can give me some incite on how I should feel about break up my best friend and his girlfriend and my stupid ex who can’t keep it in pants! I still believe he will live to cheat again, but never on me! Alright im ending this, but please! Give me some idea on how other people see cheating, thing of cheating, and what they think cheating is.

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