FOR THE BETTER OF OUR FUTURE YOUNG ADULTS NEED TO KNOW THE PROPER WAY TO COMMUNICATE. WE DON'T KNOW AS MUCH AS WE THINK WE DO AND THAT'S A PROBLEM. WHEN SOMEONE SAYS SOMETYHING THAT WE BELIEVE IS WRONG, WE SPEAK OUR MINDS AND TRY OUR BEST TO LET YOU KNOW YOUR WRONG BECAUSE WE THINK WE'RE RIGHT. WHEN THIS HAPPENS IT CREATES COMMOTION AND THATS NOT WHAT IS INTENDED. FOR SOME REASON WE AS YOUNG PEOPLE WANT TO BE HEARD ON EVERYTHING. WE FEEL THAT IF WE CAN'T GET SOMEONE TO LISTEN TO THE THINGS THAT REALLY MATTER AND HURT US THAT WE MUST INTERFEAR WITH THINGS IMPORTANT TO OTHERS. I MEAN IT'S HARD ENOUGH AS IT IS TO GET AN ANIMAL TO LISTEN TO YOU,BUT WHEN YOU HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT THE WORLD, IT BECOMES A PROBLEM. THAT PROBLEM COULD LEAD TO STRESS AND DEPRESSION. LET'S NOT MENTION THE FACT THAT YOU ALREADY DON'T HAVE MANY FRIENDS AND NOBODY EVEN BOTHERS TO TALK TO YOU AT SCHOOL. YOU GO HOME AND YOUR SO BORED ALL YOU DO IS SLEEP,BUT YOU STLL CAN'T GET YOUR GRADES UP HIGH ENOUGH TO MAKE YOURSELF FEEL BETTER BECAUSE EVEN YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY. IT'S HARD ENOUGH BEING A TEEN,BUT NOBODY WANTS TO BE A NEGLECTED TEEN. WE MAY BE OLDER, BUT THE PAIN IS STILL THERE AND IT DOES REALLY HURT.WHEN I WRITE I SPEAK ONLY OUT OF EXPERIENCE, WETHER ITS CURRENT OR PAST. THIS PARTICULAR BLOG IS PRESENT AND I THINK IT'S ABOUT TIME WE ARE HEARD. HOW WILL YOU HELP?
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it a question of what you are saying and how you are saying it. no one listens to the angst in anyone's voice, they shuffle it off as whining and don't actually perceive what is wrong at the heart of the matter. sometimes people spend too much time worrying over what the problem actually is instead of worrying how to fix the problem.
just keep blogging. keep speaking your mind, but at the same time don't be to quick to pull out naked aggression, if you have a problem, just think about what actually is wrong, think about how others see it. the main thing to do is just think of how to fix the problem. young people, while they are not adolescent in some respects, they lack the actual real world experience to say much on certain matters. half of the time, they don't know of the whole situation, they see only a glimpse of it, and then decide to speak out against something. other times, they do know what they are talking about, but don't get listened to by others due to age bias. there are a lot of unmentioned factors in play, but those two situations are what happens the most.
what older people see this as is a certain lack of understanding and patience, and they try to show one the err in their ways. sometimes this is done with chastisement sometimes it is done with caring, either way, listen to your elders, they probably are speaking from their experience and trying to apply it to whomever's situation, and that can be a tad hard.
Yours truly,
.demosthenes
You can help more by not shouting. People generally don't listen when they are being shouted at.
~C
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I must agree with mvenus and sawaboof about the all caps. It is VERY hard on the eyes to read something all in caps, believe it or not. Plus it is a common rule of thumb in netspeak that all caps is synonymous with shouting.
I can totally relate to your post. No need to yell though. Part of getting your point across is being calm and assertive but at the same time clear and impacting.
I understand about your post as well. Keep blogging but next time can you space out your paragraphs? It makes it easier to read and I agree on the shouting! Thanks. Contructive critism not trying to be rude. :)
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