Ok so this always gets to me...WHY is it when men date more than one woman at a time he is known as a pimp but when a girl does it their known or thought be a slut?! I use to be against dating more than one guy at a time but after being cheated on a few times (I found out he was dating more than just me at the same time aka pimpin it) so I started to do the same thing because I was SICK AND TIRED of the relationship being one sided...I got hurt a few times BEFORE when i was only dating one guy...Now that Im older (18 yeah i know not that old but ive had WAY more experiences than alot of other girls my age have not just physically but emotional things as well) and when my boyfriend of THREE YEARS broke up with me cuz he was cheating on me with some girl I decided to date more than one guy at a time I mean hey its not fair they can play with our hearts like that and think its no big deal! Ive done it before my three year boyfriend ( no i didnt cheat on him) but all through highschool up until my three year I was dating more than one guy at a time, I had a schedual...yes I created a daily meeting with the guys I was dating. Ok first and formost I DID NOT HAVE SEX with ALL of them thats slutish but what I DID DO was date them...I had one for everyday of the week....and i wasnt ashamed of it either, they would come to my highschool bring me lunch or we would just go out yeah people from my school thought i was a slut (some girls not all) but then when I told them why i did what i did it all made sense...im not a slut im a PIMPETTE. Guys are not the only ones that get all the fun. So for those women who have been cheated on before dont trip because you can do the same thing to (but dont do it to REALLY SWEET GUYS )only to those who are "the type"to cheaton you....
P.I.M.P. vs. SLUT
By lahainajoy89 - Posted on April 17th, 2008
While this is a good topic to discuss, it is also open to debate. Why date more than one person because he is "the type to cheat on you"..? Two wrongs don't make a right, but I can see how it can appear to make things equal. There is nothing wrong with dating more than one person at a time, thats what the dating scene is. Young people in serious relationships have their pros and their cons, so why settle? I totally understand your point, but just because he is the type to cheat doesn't mean you have to stoop down to his level.
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I agree with the other respondents. I also don't see why you would be in a relationship with someone that you don't trust. I don't see what anyone can actually get out of that other than hurt.
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This is a good debatable topic. I hear this arguement a lot: why is that when a guy sleeps with a lot of girls, he's praised by the guys and patted on the back, but when a girl does the same thing, her girlfriends say she's being slutty and she's a whore? Well, in my opinion i think it's human nature. Put yourself in a particular position. Let's say your best friend tells you about all these guys she's hooked up, and meanwhile, you've only "hooked up" with a few guys. Jealous much? So, females being the catty bitches that we are, are going to say she's a slut, because word gets out about how many guys she's been with. Have you ever noticed that the guys who are with a lot of girls don't seem to mind getting with sluts? That's because it usually doesn't offend them. But it's girls who call other girls sluts. Another reason a guy might call a girl a slut, if their a pimp, is because when a girl is sexually active with multiple partners, the private area can sometimes get well... you know. And guys want to be with clean girls. Most of the time, sluts don't take excellent care for their bodies. NOT all of time, but usually. Another reason for a guy to call a girl a slut could be that they are actually a good guy, and thus, want a good girl to be with, so typically, good guys don't want to be with sluts.
Jealous? Hardly. I've never been jealous of anyone with multiple partners. I don't look down on them as sluts, either, so maybe my word doesn't count in this case...
But I've never, ever been jealous that some other chick has more partners than me. Actually, when the girls I know with multiple partners have a ton of partners, it's not because they're pretty or better in bed. Usually it's the opposite. Usually, in my experience, they're girls with no self esteem.
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