I admit that now a day’s people, especially girls have no self respect for them. They believed that they are nobody without a man. Some of them do exactly what their man wants them to do because they are of afraid of losing that supposedly man that "loves her" I mean what kind self respect are we trying to prove here. And it all comes back to the issue of self esteem where theirs occasions where girls don’t ever believe in themselves. What kind of life can she expect if she continues that path. I admit that it is hard to be a woman sometimes because we are faced with many obstacles in life. Our lives aren't as easy as the man has it but I mean that's the concept of life, I believed God made women stronger because we are more capable of achieving great things in life. I am not trying to discriminate men I’m just emphasizing that woman should have hope in themselves and fight for what they truly want in life. Life has taught me that we have to stop being cry babies and look ahead because nobody will ever go up to you and offer you some help or a shoulder to lean on when your tired. We have to understand that life is a pain in the ass, and nobody cares about you in any sense. You have to gain respect from others and prove to everybody else that you’re worth it all the way. It’s hilarious how I expressed myself in this blog but at the same time im dying of pain inside me. I am an unsecured teen age girl who cares about every bodies problems except herself and avoids them each time she is confronted by them. I have always thought that I know everything about life, that im prepared for any test I am given, but the truth is that I am not and neither of us. I have grown and consider myself an intelligent and responsible adult. Life has taught me many marvelous things that have helped me mature over the years. I have had many flaws and decays in my life that had destroyed me for an instant and led me to a great depression in life. But I have stood up and fight with all my heart to overcome those difficulties and learn from them, because by avoiding one's problems we are just making it worse for us, because in reality those problems will never vanished from your life until you have destroyed them. In reality I am a hypocrite because I give advice to others on their problems when I should be helping myself. The problems of others reflect my own insight problems in life.



i have low self esteem in myself and i need other people to make me feel better of myself. i'm worling on it though and little by little i'm beginning to feel better about myself. =)