Twelve and a half years, and I only have a Green Card to show for it.

I moved to Texas from Mexico in July 1995. Its been about 12 years and a half, and I am still only a legal resident alien.
I have been a legal resident of the U.S. since 2001, but I should have been a citizen by now. My father is a native born citizen, and it should have transferred to me. Which comes to show how much your parents have love for you. My parents divorced in October 1995, when I was only 6 years old. After that, it would be generous to say that I see my dad twice a month.
My mother, the best human being on earth, has done everything for me. My father left us (my mom, my two older sisters, one who was pregnant, and me) on the streets of El Paso, Texas, only three months after moving us from Mexico to the United States. As you can imagine, none of us knew English, and we had forty dollars in our pocket. The average person would have given up at this point. But my mother, being the strong individual she is, brought us out of our hole.
I can barely remember this point in our lives, so I don't remember what we did right away, but my mother got back into the game by selling burritos. She went to the cheapest grocery store, bought some tortillas, cheese and beans and started cooking. We had a green Ford Thunderbird which she would take to the many factories on the westside of El Paso and from the twenty dollars she spent she made forty. The following day, she did the same thing, this time making sixty. And she kept at it. I recall her dropping me off at the young age of 7 at a factory, Rock-Tenn, at 4 o'clock in the morning, with a cooler full of burritos. I was instructed to sell them for a dollar each. She didn't know when she would be back, but she would pick me up in time to go to school. This continued for about a year. Soon enough, we upgraded, and began making hair bows with Disney Princesses on them. On the weekends, my sisters and I would go to the flea market and sell as many as we could. The success continued so we began selling purses and jewelery.
And slowly but surely, we got to where we are. My mother is now the proud owner of 3 cars, a house and a whole block of property. She works hard Monday thru Saturday to give us everything we have. I admit I have taken advantage of her, and done some things that a daughter should never do to her mother. I have terrible regret for these things, although at one point in time it was what I wanted.
My mother taught herself English and went to a community college to receive her GED, since she had only studied up to sixth grade in Mexico. She taught herself all about immigration and she now helps other fellow immigrants to get their papers. Because of her, I got my legal residency in 2001, even though I could have gotten it faster thru my father. She barely became a legal citizen in 2006.
On Tuesday, February 19th, 2008 I have my appointment for my citizenship interview. The feeling that I have is amazing. All the work that my mother has done for me is about to pay off. It comes to show that if you have a strong heart and determination, anything, and i mean anything, is possible.

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This is a wonderful blog. Our immigration system here in the U.S. quite frankly sucks. I'd love for you to write more about what kind of improvements could be made to reduce the time delay and frustrations. What kind of bureaucracy have you run into? How difficult was it to get your appointment? What is the process like first-hand?

You and your family are the essence of Americans - hard-working people who refuse to quit. I can't tell you how good it makes me feel to hear that someone was able to improve life for their family, and how much better it would be if more people could achieve what your mother has.

The system is broken, and some simple changes would make all the difference so more families like yours could have "happy endings" and legal citizenship, instead of being treated like dirt by employers who don't have any incentive to respect or appreciate their labor.

Good luck at your interview! I wish you and your family nothing but the best... and keep blogging! I want to hear what you have to say. : )

First of all, thank you so much for the response.
Acutally this interview has been a rollercoaster. Like I said, I have done some things to my mother that I regret doing and I was not living at home for quite some time. She received a letter from immigration that I had my citizenship interview in October of last year. She was excited for this because I was getting myself into some things that could have gotten me deported. She told me she did not care what I did, as long as I attended that interview.
So in that day of October, I forced myself to wake up at 5 in the morning so I could go to her house and study a little while, since most of the questions are common sense. We went to the place where the interview was to be held, and I can there was about 20 people before me. Not even 5 minutes had passed, and my name was called. I got kind of nervous but I stood up and walked towards the door. I thought I would be following the man who called my name thru the door behind him but he told me that I had arrived before my interview did so I was going to have to be rescheduled. I heart fell. I was like how could this be?
I moved back home in November, and I actually just moved up to Washington state with my oldest sister in December. I'm excited to be going home to see my mom. I miss her, and I'm glad that she has sacrificed what she has to get my family and I where I am.
I'll try and post another blog answering all your questions!

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Fantastic. I enjoyed reading this. Immigration is particularly interesting to me, since I have a fiance who is not a U.S. citizen. It does seem to take a long time to actually become a citizen. Will you automatically get the right to vote with your citizenship? I certainly hope so.

I'm not quite sure exactly how it works, which I should know, because my sister and stepdad have gone thru this process. I don't know if they directly tell you that you passed your interview, or if you just have to wait for a letter in the mail. I do know you get a letter in the mail though, and it gives you another appointment, this time for you to swear into citizenship. After this point, you are allowed to register to vote, and do all the other things that citizens have the right to do. It should take about three months for me to get the other appointment, but immigration slacks. I'm just hoping I get to vote in this years elections.
Thanks for the response!

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Best of luck with your interview. You have an amazing-sounding life story and I hope you write more posts about it.

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Thank you! I haven't really studied, which I should, so I'm going to go print out the study guide right now.
I never really thought my life was amazing, i've just been thru more struggles than the average person.
I'll try and post more, but for now I hope this will suffice.

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If as you say, your father is a native born American then you are already a citizen by birth. It should be that simple.

That is the law. You should not need to be going through legal residency and applications. You were a citizen the day you were born.

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My father is a native born citizen, and it should have transferred to me.

She does address this. I'd also like some more information... how did you get denied citizenship at birth? Jack has a good point.

I was born in Mexico City. I moved to the United States when I was five years old.

Well it would be that simple if I was born in the U.S. but I was born in Mexico City in 1989. My father's citizenship could have transfered to me except for the fact that he denies to ask for my papers. My mother has been the one that has fought for my citizenship rights and I had to wait until I turned 18 to ask for my own papers.

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