important landmark

In my 17 years of life, the most important landmark in my life is my daughter Reanne. I found out that I was pregnant in the spring of 2007. I was just finishing up my junior year of high school. I decided to have my baby and take responsibility for my actions. I gave birth to my daughter Reanne on August 8, 2007.

My daughter is now 7 months old. In these 7 months, I have grown in so many ways. Having a child makes a person grow instantly- as far as no more playing around, just focus on being a good parent to your child. My motherly instinct became apparent when Reanne came home from the hospital and it was up to me to feed her through out the night and change her diaper and hold her for as long as she wanted to be carried. I have no regrets and am very happy with being a mother but this type of responsibility is usually
not part of a 17 year olds daily regimen. I realize that the smooth transition would not have been possible without a supportive family base.

I have learned that motherhood is not easy. The decisions that I have made for myself is something that I will have to face head on. I realize that when I am not in school, I am spending quality time with daughter and tending to her daily needs. I also realize that as a 17 year old, I am financially responsible to provide for Reanne. I am currently juggling my high school studies, part time work at the Royal Lahaina Luau, raising my daughter, and maintaining a relationship with my boyfriend (Reanne’s father) and his family.

Reanne has directly impacted my life and has brought me both challenges and happiness. Reanne has taught me a life lesson of taking responsibility for your actions. And that everything happens for a reason. Like Newton said “To every action there is a reaction” and in the grand scheme of things, I am very lucky to have a healthy happy baby in my life. I understand that every decision that I make will affect the both of us.
My career goals include pursuing a college education at Maui Community College to become a teacher. I want to become an elementary school teacher in Lahaina. Reanne is my driving force to be the best mom that I can be and to be the provider that I should be. I understand that a college education and a fulfilling career will provide the lifestyle that I need to give to my daughter. To be sure that my daughter will be able to participate in sports and attend functions that will help her grow as a person. Whether it be swimming lessons or playing soccer or getting extra help by an after school tutor. I want to provide the best for her and believe that my career and achieving my personal goals will give Reanne what she needs.